After watching the Dahmer series, I wonder what it would be like to watch Katie doing the work with Jeffrey. I'm sure he would've be fascinated to meet someone like her, and doing the inquiry in order to understand his mind.
Its about forgiveness and letting go of the resentment but really it's just too much confusion and overanalyzing. If one has been abused and sexually molested even then the question is it true, is it true. Yes it is true! why would one has to overanalyze and confuse oneself. 😂😂😂
This is d first tym I am hearing her. She has an inner light "We are Stuck in a concept we never question" Yes we imagine things, both positiveor negative, n we believe it like robots 'Loving father, not the judging father'
Going to sound corny but when I see these prisoners share their personal stories.. I just fall in love with all of them!!! I just want to lift them up and heal their wounds and show them that they are so capable of love and being the love they are. Humans are so amazing and heartbreaking and adorable. Watching them taste just a little drop of what truly matters and how how starving they are to know love, just makes we want to do what she does. If only there was a place for humans to get a quick and through dose of self-understanding and love... That technology may come someday? Self destruction is such a painful path especially if we have been taught it from the beginning.. Yet each of them has their unique path... I could see how it might be difficult for some of them to hit this work when the cycle of victimhood has been such a part of every day existence. Yet the beautiful thing about Katie is she knows exactly how far she can take each one of them towards meeting their personal truth. Her work is embedded into my daily existence and watching these beautiful men tell their stories quickly opens my heart wide open. Give her work a chance if you are a hardcore resistant-to-life person... like I often can be... Wanting the world to be different than it is.. I would likely have left the planet years ago if it were not for finding her and her work, and so glad to be here. The beauty and depth of "the work" discovered ***her*** and she now shares this unconditional tough-love with the world selflessly. I will forever cherish all the ways this process has touched my life and always fascinated by how beautiful people are at their core. 1000% responsibility is never easy and takes willingness, courage and strength, but the payoff is priceless beyond words. I can't help but fall in love with all of them such beautiful humans.. Her work is way ahead of it's time, yet needed more than ever these days. : ) Perhaps someday humans will finally get it? PEACE on earth, goodwill be done... towards all life, someday, somehow, someway...amen
Thanks Byron Katie. I just saw a story on the news about a prison system that had a book club that inspired men to donate funds to a young student whose parents had lost their jobs do to illness. I don't know if my phone is trolling me or not but I think that is an example of how people like you are giving hope.
I like this video because she provides examples based on her experience. The work was flushed out really well, which I think is very helpful for people new to the work. Thanks for posting this!
For her, I would imagine for myself that she would have seen it so many time that it isn't new. She's grieved for these things already. There are plenty of videos where the whole audience and her cry. It's a true experience and has changed my life.
Nearly 20 years since the video was made. The Work still valid.. makes me ponder how no matter the diatance, or time lapsed or personal circumstances, we experience the same pain and same solution works its magic.
Profound exercise and Work. Just beautiful.. jaw dropoing wisdom... and on a lighter note, I love that the one guy's problem being in prison is that his family home is painted blue and he doesn't like it.
O.k. so the second guy's father wasn't abusive once....Which makes his initial statement "untrue" or "a lie"...but isn't that nitpicking? Does he not have a good reason to feel resentful for the other 99.999999%?....for having lived his entire childhood in fear? Don't get me wrong...I think this process can be very helpful... but in situations that involve abuse of power toward a child who literally depends on you for love and protection...I can see why he's confused. This "work" is ADULT work....and you're dealing with his inner child who was NOT responsible for not knowing how to deal appropriately with his father's abuse. Of course he acted out! This is what people do when they've exhausted all saner options. And children do not WANT to hurt their parents. They only do so when they've tried to solve their problems with all other tools available to them... Of course I see the value in learning to recognize that even abusive parents may love their children...and that they, themselves, only abuse when they "can see no other way"...and understanding this can be very helpful for our own healing and growth toward taking responsibility for our lives and our choices....but let's not bypass the NON-CHOICE and the very real pain and trauma of a child in constant fear in his own home during the most critical developmental period of his life. I doubt that BK "intends" to bypass in this way..(as evidenced in her later comment with another participant "we expect our children to do it, but we can't even do it!").but I sure wish she would have said as much while speaking with the guy who grew up in fear of his father...who might have interpreted what she's saying here as "you are and always have been equally responsible in every painful situation as the so-called "culprit". This is not true for a child. I'm a believer in "grieving first" what was lost....and THEN taking responsibility for one's life moving forward as an adult.
this work is very personal, and as such, everyone needs to do it as far as it true for them in each of the questions. if a certain one isnt true for u - it's not, and there's no reason to force yourself to fake it in order to please the process, katie, or whatever. for example, if u do the work on an abusive parent, u can find yourself dealing with a question such as "your father abused you" - and go to the second question "can you absolutely know that its true?" - you can answer "yes" equally as "no". what u recognize as the truth, is what really makes sense.. not the answer, but what you find in your inner world to be true. this doesnt mean that you give up your values, you just learn to identify the stressful thoughts and feelings u have upon any situation, and give it the peace it needs. that's basically what this process is about.
this video has let me know how many resentments in my life i have. how it is me and my thinking that has made me fucked up, amazing!!! turn it all around!!
49:00 no one can leave me. I have the power ♥️
When Scott and Katie hugged and she kissed him on the cheek it took my breath away. Beautiful.
That's hard.
And yet, so necessary.
I didnt get it..
Incredible.
This was Amazing, thank you for sharing
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Expectations are a premeditated resentment. My dad cared about me, but he didn’t do it the way I wanted.
Which year is this?
Resentment has its roots in envy
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Gracias por compartir !
@GuyMadison, can I upload and translate this video to russian?
After watching the Dahmer series, I wonder what it would be like to watch Katie doing the work with Jeffrey. I'm sure he would've be fascinated to meet someone like her, and doing the inquiry in order to understand his mind.
@GuyMadison, can I upload and translate this video to russian?
❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥 "We get really confused when love begins to replace hate and resentment." Truth haha
Pure gold!😃
That was incredible
This is absolutely incredible work.
thanks Guy M. needed to go back to this is for growth and found it here
Not sure how much she helped the second guy by getting him to think he had been nothing but abusive to his father. He just seemed hurt and confused
need to teach this to children!!!!!!!!!!
Its about forgiveness and letting go of the resentment but really it's just too much confusion and overanalyzing. If one has been abused and sexually molested even then the question is it true, is it true. Yes it is true! why would one has to overanalyze and confuse oneself. 😂😂😂
The Genie Within ........................
She shared how she did her self-healing process. Thanks Katie. I thank God you were born brave and kind
Amazing human being
There are 83 sad people who are still stuck in their own prisons.
This is d first tym I am hearing her. She has an inner light "We are Stuck in a concept we never question" Yes we imagine things, both positiveor negative, n we believe it like robots 'Loving father, not the judging father'
Thank you!
the cockroach story changed over time, I remember her mentioning an attic and staying at a metal institution...
You truly are doing gods work. Your approach is mind numbing in its brilliant simplicity. Thank you.
Going to sound corny but when I see these prisoners share their personal stories.. I just fall in love with all of them!!! I just want to lift them up and heal their wounds and show them that they are so capable of love and being the love they are. Humans are so amazing and heartbreaking and adorable. Watching them taste just a little drop of what truly matters and how how starving they are to know love, just makes we want to do what she does. If only there was a place for humans to get a quick and through dose of self-understanding and love... That technology may come someday? Self destruction is such a painful path especially if we have been taught it from the beginning.. Yet each of them has their unique path... I could see how it might be difficult for some of them to hit this work when the cycle of victimhood has been such a part of every day existence. Yet the beautiful thing about Katie is she knows exactly how far she can take each one of them towards meeting their personal truth. Her work is embedded into my daily existence and watching these beautiful men tell their stories quickly opens my heart wide open. Give her work a chance if you are a hardcore resistant-to-life person... like I often can be... Wanting the world to be different than it is.. I would likely have left the planet years ago if it were not for finding her and her work, and so glad to be here. The beauty and depth of "the work" discovered ***her*** and she now shares this unconditional tough-love with the world selflessly. I will forever cherish all the ways this process has touched my life and always fascinated by how beautiful people are at their core. 1000% responsibility is never easy and takes willingness, courage and strength, but the payoff is priceless beyond words. I can't help but fall in love with all of them such beautiful humans.. Her work is way ahead of it's time, yet needed more than ever these days. : ) Perhaps someday humans will finally get it? PEACE on earth, goodwill be done... towards all life, someday, somehow, someway...amen
What year is this from? Who are these guys? I love this but I have so many questions
“To stand up for truth is nothing. For truth, you must sit in jail.” -Alexander Solzhenitsyn
These beautiful souls.
Thanks Byron Katie. I just saw a story on the news about a prison system that had a book club that inspired men to donate funds to a young student whose parents had lost their jobs do to illness. I don't know if my phone is trolling me or not but I think that is an example of how people like you are giving hope.
This is beautiful.
I like this video because she provides examples based on her experience. The work was flushed out really well, which I think is very helpful for people new to the work. Thanks for posting this!
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But a friend pointed out when she says "this heart mind, there is a heart and a mind"... she basically is describing a SOUL
Such a SWEET and LOVELY lady!!!
I love this video. I don't know how she got through this without sobbing.. It's beautiful interaction. Those men who shared were very brave.
For her, I would imagine for myself that she would have seen it so many time that it isn't new. She's grieved for these things already. There are plenty of videos where the whole audience and her cry. It's a true experience and has changed my life.
My situation is unfair so i feel angry and blame my wife. I m blaming myself and I'm feeling angry at myself, the situation is fair.
Let's do the work😉
Nearly 20 years since the video was made. The Work still valid.. makes me ponder how no matter the diatance, or time lapsed or personal circumstances, we experience the same pain and same solution works its magic.
Profound exercise and Work. Just beautiful.. jaw dropoing wisdom... and on a lighter note, I love that the one guy's problem being in prison is that his family home is painted blue and he doesn't like it.
This lovely woman is a genius!
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She needs to teach the guards, the police and the soldiers.
Is that true? 😜
@@taramickeymickeranno8725 lol
sounds controlling
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This is amazing work .. so glad I found it ♥️
O.k. so the second guy's father wasn't abusive once....Which makes his initial statement "untrue" or "a lie"...but isn't that nitpicking? Does he not have a good reason to feel resentful for the other 99.999999%?....for having lived his entire childhood in fear? Don't get me wrong...I think this process can be very helpful... but in situations that involve abuse of power toward a child who literally depends on you for love and protection...I can see why he's confused. This "work" is ADULT work....and you're dealing with his inner child who was NOT responsible for not knowing how to deal appropriately with his father's abuse. Of course he acted out! This is what people do when they've exhausted all saner options. And children do not WANT to hurt their parents. They only do so when they've tried to solve their problems with all other tools available to them... Of course I see the value in learning to recognize that even abusive parents may love their children...and that they, themselves, only abuse when they "can see no other way"...and understanding this can be very helpful for our own healing and growth toward taking responsibility for our lives and our choices....but let's not bypass the NON-CHOICE and the very real pain and trauma of a child in constant fear in his own home during the most critical developmental period of his life. I doubt that BK "intends" to bypass in this way..(as evidenced in her later comment with another participant "we expect our children to do it, but we can't even do it!").but I sure wish she would have said as much while speaking with the guy who grew up in fear of his father...who might have interpreted what she's saying here as "you are and always have been equally responsible in every painful situation as the so-called "culprit". This is not true for a child. I'm a believer in "grieving first" what was lost....and THEN taking responsibility for one's life moving forward as an adult.
this work is very personal, and as such, everyone needs to do it as far as it true for them in each of the questions. if a certain one isnt true for u - it's not, and there's no reason to force yourself to fake it in order to please the process, katie, or whatever. for example, if u do the work on an abusive parent, u can find yourself dealing with a question such as "your father abused you" - and go to the second question "can you absolutely know that its true?" - you can answer "yes" equally as "no". what u recognize as the truth, is what really makes sense.. not the answer, but what you find in your inner world to be true. this doesnt mean that you give up your values, you just learn to identify the stressful thoughts and feelings u have upon any situation, and give it the peace it needs. that's basically what this process is about.
@@GM1988 that's not really what happened in this exchange though. He seemed confused and hurt from it
this video has let me know how many resentments in my life i have. how it is me and my thinking that has made me fucked up, amazing!!! turn it all around!!